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Very nice facility and staff. My mom is quite happy there. The food was really good at first but it is now contracted out and so depending on who is cooking it varies. They have a good activities director...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Dear Friends: Greenfield Senior Living's mission has long been to transform the senior living experience. When we began some ten years ago, we believed assisted living was something more than just providing a place for seniors to live. We created a place where choice and the experience of...
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My father lives here. The staff is courteous and helpful, the cost is affordable and it is very conveniently located. The apartments are well kept.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Enoch George Manor is located in Historic Spotsylvania County, Virginia. Minutes from down town Fredericksburg, Virginia. Our two bedroom two bath apartments feature a large walk in shower in the master bath room. ** income restrictions apply EHO
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My overall experience and living accommodations at Southwinds has been Great. I lost my husband after 48 years and I am just getting used to being alone and starting over. The cleanliness of the building...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Southwinds 2 is a luxurious and classy senior apartment community located in White Plains, Charles County, MD. Apart from being a senior apartment, Southwinds 2 also operates as an independent living community that provides care services for its residents. It is a gated community for seniors aged...
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It has been overall positive. We picked this community because it was the only option, and it was affordable. I would recommend to others.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Welcome home to Lexington Park Adult Community. We are an affordable apartment community for senior' 55 years of age and older. Our community consists of 1 bedroom, 2 bedroom 1 baths, and 2 bedroom 2 baths apartment units. Whether you want to take a swim in our indoor heated pool or just relax...
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Charging seniors on a fixed income for $[removed], is not right. That is a mortgage payment. And the studio appt. What? $[removed] then they pay trash and electric? Let me know if I'm wrong. I believe rent...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Southwinds is a luxurious, upscale, active adult, apartment rental community for persons age 55 and better. A gated community, nestled in the woods — quite and serene, yet located just minutes from Waldorf and LaPlata shopping, medical and professional areas. At Southwinds, you can live the...
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Charming place, like home. Rooms furnished nicely with large private baths. The staff and administrator are exceptional. Every time I enter to visit love one, the place is immaculate, smelling fresh and...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
Washington & Lee Home for the Elderly is a privately owned/operated, eighteen bed, adult assisted living home, licensed by the Virginia Department of Social Services. A country setting nestled in historic Westmoreland County. Frequent visibility of deer and turkey are seen through large pane...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Independent Living: Independent living facilities offer convenient, hassle-free living in a social environment for seniors who are active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Nestled in the heart of the revitalized Lusby, in Calvert County, you will find Southern Pines II Senior Apartments for ages 62+. These beautiful senior apartments are located in a superb location with nearby access to transportation, shopping, recreation and more.At Southern Pines II, designed...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
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Provides: Assisted Living
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
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Provides: Senior Apartments
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Having provided senior care for many years, we, understand the emotions that families face when making care decisions for their loved ones. Providing for a parent, spouse, or relative can be physically, emotionally, and financially challenging. Making the decision to get help is often difficult. ...
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My mother in law loves living at Chesapeake Cove. The staff are wonderful. The caregivers are local, friendly, helpful and she does not go without. The community is clean and well maintained. She likes the...
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
If you enjoy independence and the freshness and beauty of the outdoors, then you will love Chesapeake Cove in Crisfield, MD. Nestled on the Delmarva Peninsula, the community provides gorgeous and relaxing views of the bay, which inspires residents to kick back and relax. The neighborhood...
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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Senior Apartments: Senior apartments offer accessible, no-frills living for seniors who are generally active, healthy, and able to live on their own.
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The community provides activities such as entertainment musicians, exercise classes, they take the residents outside frequently. Food is very good. I would rate the room sizes a 4. The staff really stood out...
Provides: Assisted Living, Memory Care
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Assisted Living: Assisted living facilities offer housing and care for active seniors who may need support with activities of daily living, like bathing, dressing, and medication management.
Memory Care: Memory care facilities provide housing, care, and therapies for seniors who have Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia in an environment designed to reduce confusion and prevent wandering.
At Greenfield of Fredericksburg, we provide care for your loved ones and, at the same time, help them maintain their independence. Our beautiful, clean neighborhood-style assisted living community looks and feels like home, ensuring our residents' comfort while we provide the care they need. In...

Cost of independent living in Oldhams, VA

The average cost of senior living in Oldhams is $3,866 per month. Cheaper nearby regions include Montross, VA with an average of $2,975 per month.

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Oldhams, VA vs. nearby cities

Oldhams, VA
$3,866/mo
$3,807/mo
$2,975/mo

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Oldhams, VA vs. the state and national average

Oldhams, VA
$3,866/mo
U.S. national average
$4,009/mo

Average monthly cost of Independent Living in Oldhams vs. other types of senior living

$5,088/mo
Independent Living
$3,866/mo

Median monthly costs of Independent Living in Oldhams, VA by room type

Semi-Private
$4,957/mo
Studio
$5,601/mo
1 Bedroom
$5,102/mo
2 Bedroom
$4,845/mo
Detached Cottage/Bungalow
$4,280/mo

Average cost of Independent Living in Oldhams over time

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What families are saying about independent living in Oldhams

Recent reviews for independent living in Oldhams

Essex House in Tappahannock, VA

5.0
I moved my mother to Essex house in the beginning of October 2016 and have been very pleased with the service provided my mother. They have done everything in their power to make her stay comfortable. Due to the location, it has been easier for family to visit.

Commonwealth Senior Living at Fredericksburg

5.0
I am very happy with the level of care provided by Greenfield. My mom has been at this community for 7 weeks now and she is well provided for and happy. She now has a circle of new friends and an active social life, something that had been lacking in her life for a number of years.

Madonna House in Fredericksburg, VA

5.0
I am happy with the community I chose. The facility is clean in all public areas, My apartment has enough space for me to feel comfortable and it comes with a kitchen to make my meals. It's amazing how much activities that they have here.

Oldhams independent living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Oldhams independent living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Oldhams, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Oldhams independent living

Independent living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Oldhams partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.
Oldhams, VANational
Nutritionist / dietician
Nutritionist / dietician
28.1%
20.3%
Low / no sodium
Low / no sodium
38.6%
33.9%
No sugar
No sugar
36.8%
31.3%
Vegetarian
Vegetarian
38.6%
33.3%
Pureed meals
Pureed meals
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Availability of select dining options in Oldhams independent living

Our independent living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Oldhams communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.
Oldhams, VANational
Professional chef
Professional chef
26.3%
36.3%
Restaurant style dining
Restaurant style dining
38.6%
43.3%
Room service
Room service
35.1%
36.7%
Anytime dining
Anytime dining
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Availability of select programs and activities in Oldhams independent living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered independent living communities in Oldhams offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.
Oldhams, VANational
Activity director
Activity director
40.4%
45.1%
Pet-focused programs
Pet-focused programs
33.3%
28.2%
Community service programs
Community service programs
26.3%
32.6%
Devotional activities on-site
Devotional activities on-site
54.4%
49%
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
Parties / BBQs / happy hour
56.1%
49.6%
Outings / off-site activities
Outings / off-site activities
59.6%
54.7%
Piano or organ
Piano or organ
36.8%
42.9%
Arts and crafts center
Arts and crafts center
36.8%
37.5%
Educational speakers / life long learning
Educational speakers / life long learning
36.8%
41.4%
Clubs / games / karaoke
Clubs / games / karaoke
49.1%
47.3%
Live performances
Live performances
49.1%
47%
Dances
Dances
38.6%
32.3%
Fitness center
Fitness center
35.1%
39.5%
Fitness classes
Fitness classes
42.1%
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Verena at The Reserve, Morningside House of St Charles and Heritage Green are the top-rated independent living facilities near Oldhams, Virginia. See full list of communities.

There are 65 independent living facilities near Oldhams, Virginia. See the full list.

The best independent living facilities near you in Oldhams, Virginia are Verena at The Reserve and Morningside House of St Charles. These independent living communities received the highest rankings based on verified family reviews.

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