NON -CHALLENGER h1 from CMS10 Best Assisted Living Facilities in Jay, OK

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The average monthly cost of Assisted Living in Oklahoma is $5,330, according to A Place for Mom’s proprietary data. This can serve as a helpful benchmark for what families in the Jay area can expect to pay. Pricing may vary based on the community’s location, your loved one’s care needs, and any additional services or amenities.

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Cost of assisted living in Jay, OK

The average cost of senior living in Oklahoma is $5,330 per month as compared to $5,830 in the United States.

Senior living costs in Oklahoma vs. national costs

Cost comparison table showing community type costs by location. This table contains 3 rows of data across 4 columns.

Column communityType: Community type

Column state: Oklahoma

Column national: U.S.

Column costDifference: Cost difference

Community type	Oklahoma	U.S.	Cost difference
Assisted Living	$5,330/mo	$5,830/mo	8.6% below national median
Memory Care	$6,168/mo	$6,999/mo	11.9% below national median
Independent Living	$2,972/mo	$3,520/mo	15.6% below national median

Assisted Living

Oklahoma:$5,330/mo

U.S.:$5,830/mo

Cost difference:8.6% below national median

Memory Care

Oklahoma:$6,168/mo

U.S.:$6,999/mo

Cost difference:11.9% below national median

Independent Living

Oklahoma:$2,972/mo

U.S.:$3,520/mo

Cost difference:15.6% below national median

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Ways to pay for Assisted Living in Jay, OK

Paying for assisted living may seem daunting, but knowing all your options can be empowering. Read about the many private and public payment options that families use to pay for assisted living in Jay.

Private income options in Oklahoma

Find ways to combine private income sources to pay for assisted living.

VA benefits in Oklahoma

Learn how ample VA benefits can help veterans and their spouses pay for assisted living.

Medicare and Medicaid in Oklahoma

Consider Medicaid and/or Medicare to reduce assisted living costs.

What families are saying about assisted living in Jay

Recent reviews for assisted living in Jay

The Bungalows at Fayetteville

3.8

We like our room with its view of a hayfield behind us and our private patio. We are continually working with the food director to provide a quality diet. The size of the room was very important--larger than most other facilities.

The Meadows Assisted Living Community in Bentonville, AR

4.0

My parents have recently moved into this community and so far everything is going well for them. I really liked how smooth the transition went and how welcoming all of the staff where to them upon move in. My dad is limited on mobility so it helps that they have a wide open floor plan that ...

Concordia of Bella Vista

5.0

My experience has been they hire very loving and kind people that enjoy working with seniors...they are all so very helpful and kind!

Jay assisted living services and amenities

These charts highlight some of the many care, dining, and entertainment offerings available in Jay assisted living communities. They don’t represent all possible services and amenities available at assisted living communities in Jay, but support comparisons against nationwide offerings. Our Senior Living Advisors can help you find communities that fit your preferences.

Availability of select care services in Jay assisted living

Assisted living communities offer a variety of care services and visiting health care providers to meet seniors’ health needs. The chart below shows the percentage of assisted living partners in Jay that offer these care services compared to the percentage of partners that offer them nationally.

Jay, OKNational

Full medication management

16.5%

45.4%

Doctor on call

10.5%

29.5%

24-Hour awake staff

98.7%

91.5%

Diabetic care

99%

93.1%

*Visiting health care professionals

17.1%

49.3%

Home care agency on-site

7.9%

26.1%

Non-ambulatory care

98.8%

91.1%

Respite or short term stays

13.2%

41.1%

Hospice available on-site

13.7%

45.8%

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*Including nurse, dentist, OT, PT, speech or podiatrist

Availability of select dementia care services in Jay assisted living

Our community partners provide many services to keep residents with dementia or other memory concerns safe and engaged. Below, take a look at what percentage of Jay Assisted Living partners offer the selected dementia care services compared to the percentage of partners nationally.

Jay, OKNational

Dementia behaviors care

15.3%

44.4%

Specialized memory care training for staff

9.7%

28.2%

Secured community and/or wander guard

12.1%

35.6%

Memory care only community

3.9%

11.9%

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Availability of select dietary accommodations in Jay assisted living

Assisted living communities help seniors maintain a balanced diet by accommodating their health needs, allergies, and other restrictions. Below you’ll find the percentage of Jay partners making specific dietary accommodations for seniors compared to the percentage of assisted living partners making those accommodations nationally.

Jay, OKNational

Nutritionist / dietician

12.8%

23.7%

Low / no sodium

10.9%

35.5%

No sugar

9.6%

32.5%

Vegetarian

7.8%

31.7%

Pureed meals

6.2%

15.9%

0.0%20.0%40.0%60.0%80.0%100%

Availability of select dining options in Jay assisted living

Our assisted living communities know that seniors want top-quality meals and options for how they dine. The chart below indicates the percentage of Jay communities that offer dining options to their discerning residents compared to our partners nationally.

Jay, OKNational

Professional chef

7.3%

27.4%

Restaurant style dining

13%

36.8%

Room service

12.3%

32%

Anytime dining

4.1%

15.7%

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Availability of select programs and activities in Jay assisted living

Senior living communities offer a variety of programming to keep seniors socially, mentally, and physically vibrant. The chart below shows what percentage of partnered assisted living communities in Jay offer the selected activities, amenities, and programs compared to the percentage of partners nationwide.

Jay, OKNational

Activity director

15.3%

40.2%

Pet-focused programs

9.8%

26.8%

Community service programs

9.4%

26.4%

Devotional activities on-site

15.9%

43%

Parties / BBQs / happy hour

14.9%

42.7%

Outings / off-site activities

15.8%

45.4%

Piano or organ

13.6%

35.9%

Arts and crafts center

10.9%

31%

Educational speakers / life long learning

11.9%

33%

Clubs / games / karaoke

14.5%

40.5%

Live performances

14.2%

40.7%

Dances

9.7%

26.6%

Fitness center

4.5%

21.3%

Fitness classes

14.4%

39.8%

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State regulations for assisted living in Jay

Safety is a primary concern when seniors and their families look for assisted living. Each state has its own laws and inspection processes to help ensure seniors reside in a safe environment and receive quality care. Learning about Oklahoma assisted living regulations will help you understand how assisted living communities in Jay protect seniors.

Learn about Oklahoma assisted living regulations Download the Guide to Senior Living Licensure and Inspection Reports

Frequently Asked Questions

Heritage Grove at Tahlequah Assisted Living, Brookdale Claremore and Magnolia Place Transitional Assisted Living and Memory Care are the top-rated assisted living facilities near Jay, Oklahoma. See full list of communities.

There are 52 assisted living facilities near Jay, Oklahoma. See the full list.

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Cost of assisted living in Jay, OK

Senior living costs in Oklahoma vs. national costs

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What families are saying about assisted living in Jay

Recent reviews for assisted living in Jay

Jay assisted living services and amenities

Availability of select care services in Jay assisted living

Availability of select dementia care services in Jay assisted living

Availability of select dietary accommodations in Jay assisted living

Availability of select dining options in Jay assisted living

Availability of select programs and activities in Jay assisted living

State regulations for assisted living in Jay

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